"Tommy" Tolmie on July 13, 2020 of Jupiter, Fl,  formerly of Oyster Bay. Beloved husband of Linda (Nee Scaramuzzo). Loving father of Dawn (Dave) Cluff, Shari, and Thomas M. Tolmie, III "TJ". Loving grandfather of Athena and Cooper. Dear brother of James Tolmie and the late Patricia Spragg.  Cherished step father of Gina (Bobby) Clark, Lynn Caramico, Jennifer (Jimmy) Testa, Joseph (Jenny) Caramico, and Josh Caramico. Also survived by 10 step- grandchildren and many nieces and nephews. Tommy was Co-Captain of the 1974 New York State championship Oyster Bay Fire Department Firematic Drill Team. He Came, Loved, Laughed, and Left. Due to the pandemic services will be held at a later date, In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Cooley's Anemia Foundation.