Paul W. Wiedenhaefer Wiedenhafer- Paul W. of Oyster Bay, NY . Beloved husband of Vera. Loving father of Richard, Robert, Patricia, Paul, Maryellen and Christina. Cherished grandfather of 14, and great-grandfather of 1. Paul was a private pilot, avid skier, golfer, animal lover and outdoorsman. He was a proud WWII Navy Veteran. He was an engineer at Grumman for 43 years, where he worked on fighter planes and the space program. Funeral Information Family will receive friends Monday 12/4/17 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. Funeral Mass Tuesday 12/5/17 9:30 a.m. Chapel of St. Dominics R.C.C. Interment to follow Long Island National Cemetery.